Me to Sarah: "What do you think is beautiful about you?"
Sarah: "I don't know, the last time you asked me that I said my eyes. But I wasn't thinking on a deeper level at the time. Now I need to try that again...What do you think is beautiful about me?"
Three of us stand, looking at Sarah for a moment and thinking how great we think she is, in so many ways, and I say, "You're a peacemaker," and the others nod in agreement.
Sarah: "That's funny you should say that, because that's what my family has always said about me. I am a peacemaker."
(She also has beautiful eyes.)